Frugal Baby Accessories
Where and What to Buy in Terms of Baby Accessories if
You Are Not Rolling in Money?
Finding out that you are pregnant can be both exciting and frightening.
On one hand you are over the moon that you are going to become a mother
yourself, on the other hand you realize the new responsibilities awaiting
you, major changes in your life style, relationship with your partner,
your social activities. On top of this, you need to prepare yourself
mentally and physically for the arrival of your baby and what's more,
buy quite a lot of baby accessories which involves lots of money...
If you are well off, then you do not think about having to spend a couple
of extra pounds, but if money is tight, then you have to be realistic
about your shopping and you want to find the best bargains.
I would like to tell you about my way of shopping for my first baby
(due in August) which allowed me to get everything needed at reasonable
prices.
Before starting to shop I set up my priorities. As "labels"
on the clothes are of no importance for me, I started preparing a list
containing the names of shops where I could possibly find baby accessories.
I also asked several members of my family about their pricewise preferred
baby accessories shopping places. Each time I took notes. Then I reviewed
my list and crossed out the repeated places and added new ones.
In the meantime I borrowed many books about newborn care and mothercare
from the library and I prepared another list. This time it contained
all the accessories for newborns and mothers advised by the authors.
As a first time mother-to-be, I paid much attention to the written media
and though I did not expect some of the baby accessories mentioned in
the books to be needed, I still included them in my list, bearing in
mind that the list will be reviewed over and over again. Once again
I asked my relatives and friends with small children to share their
experiences with me.
Equipped with the list of the accessories needed, taking into consideration
the fact that it is far easier to walk around the shops while I was
still "slim", I started gathering information on the baby
accessories. Each time I was in the town centre, I visited several shops
and noted the prices of the same goods offered by different retailers.
While comparing the prices, I made sure, that they referred to the same
products (e.g. if they were bottles, I looked for the bottles of the
same volume offered by different companies). I also wrote to some manufacturers
of baby equipment asking for their catalogues.
Once I had all the information in hand, I prepared another list containing
names of the shops in one column and accessories in another. I filled
the boxes with prices (including postage charges in case of catalogues)
and circled the best deals. Bearing them in mind, I started buying 1-2
thing(s) a week as it is always easier to spread the costs over a longer
period of time. Each time I bought something for the baby, I crossed
it out from my list of items.
Big items like a pram and car seat I did not buy until I visited endless
shops and browsed through many catalogues. Once again, I set up my priorities:
I wanted the pram to be safe, manufactured to standards, and suitable
for a newborn. I also required a pram which would convert into a stroller.
Only the prams that allow the baby to lie flat did I take into consideration.
This particular requirement of mine immediately reduced the choice of
prams. At the same time I looked through the gadgets included in the
price of prams and decided which ones are really important and useful
for me, and which ones are just "extras" hardly used but greatly
increase the price. I decided on a regular, easily folding pram with
mattress and removable hood (compatible with the
stroller) with no extras. I only bought a rain set (fitting the stroller
as well) separately. Forget the changing bag - you can always find something
suitable at home.
While deciding on the cot (it suits the baby for a longer period of
time than a Moses basket), I again looked through many catalogues and
got mine (adjustable to 3 heights) together with a foam mattress (I
made sure it was top quality) for £55. Once again, the amount
of money you spend depends on whether you wish to purchase a pine, shaped
cot or you are quite happy with a standard wood one with melamine ends.
All the baby clothes that I bought come from QD: big selection for
very low prices and what's most important for me, all the clothes are
made of at least 80% cotton if not 100%. If you are not worried about
the labels, then this is the shop for you.
I did not buy a changing table. I found it a total waste of time and
money (we looked at some but they did not meet our requirements) and
we ended up borrowing an old wooden table from our relatives. After
it has been cleaned and covered with a blanket, it will give us enough
space to change our baby safely and comfortably. Also it is big enough
to put a baby bathtub on the solid surface and transfer it to the changing
area after the bath. As the table is old, we do not have to worry about
any water stains on the surface - when it is no longer needed, we can
just dump it.
Another accessory that I did not buy is sterilizing equipment. First
of all, I intend to breastfeed, however I bought bottles, bottle and
teat brushes just in case I need them. If I needed them I would sterilize
them by boiling and leaving to dry on their own. Sterilized teats I
would keep in a dry jar with a lid, obviously sterilized by filling
it with boiling water and leaving for a couple of minutes prior to usage.
I do not intend to use any sterilizing tablets as according to me they
have the same effect as bleach and I am very dubious about pouring either
natural or formula milk into bottles that have been sterilized with
them. As you are not supposed to rinse them, it seems like you serve
your newborn a "bleachy" milk.
Instead of buying cotton balls, I bought a two pack of regular cotton
wool (you get twice as much for the same money). Once you dip the cotton
in warm water to clean the baby's eyes, it will lose its ball shape
anyway...
I can honestly say that I am well prepared for my baby's arrival without
spending a fortune. The money I saved I am going to invest in my baby's
mental development: I am going to buy various puzzles, books and other
educational toys. Simply, I am investing in my baby's future. You can
do it, too. You have nothing to lose but plenty to gain.