High-Tech Toys for Tots
It's hard to miss them in toy stores. They talk, blink,
whistle, light up, and practically sing and dance by themselves. No,
we're not talking about computer and video games for big kids, but toys
for the very tiniest youngsters. Good old stuffed animals have become
"interactive plush toys" that move and talk back. Keyboards
play music by themselves, or prompt babies with flashing lights. Activity
boards that used to simply rely on babies' hands to move levers, turn
dials, and ring bells now have "modes" for emitting voices,
lively melodies or bedtime lullabies. Even that old standard, nesting
boxes, may now have an electronic base that makes animal sounds and
states their corresponding names.
All this is undoubtedly appealing to new parents. After all, many of
us love buying high-tech gadgets for ourselves. But beneath all the
seductive bells and whistles lies a crucial question: Are high-tech
toys good for babies?
Surprisingly, many experts think not. "What you're basically doing
with these toys is taking the thinking out of the child's brain and
putting it into a computer chip," says Jane M. Healy, Ph.D., an
educational psychologist in Vail, Colorado, and author of Failure to
Connect: How Computers Affect Our Children's Minds -- and What We Can
Do About It (Touchstone Books, 1999). Healy says that babies don't learn
from complicated gadgets, but from the world around them.
She explains that one of the earliest developmental tasks for children
is to get their senses--touch, sight, sound--working in synchrony with
each other. Children learn, for instance, that if they pick up a spoon
and bang it on a box, it makes a sound, caused by the impact of the
banging. But if a toy makes sounds on its own, or if pushing buttons
produces noises and flashing lights, that can be very confusing. Healy
says that these toys may overstimulate young children and distract their
brains from making sense of the world. "And children who can't
make sense of their world are children who get in the habit of not using
their own minds. They may even have learning problems later on,"
she says.
If you can't eliminate these toys from the nursery, you can at least
limit them in favor of toys that foster exploration and creativity.
"When children play with toys, they're really doing little experiments
to see how the world works," says Alison Gopnik, Ph.D., professor
of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, and co-author
of The Scientist in the Crib: What Early Learning Tells Us About the
Mind (Harper Perennial Library, 2000). "The things that seem to
be babies' favorite toys today have been babies' favorite toys forever
-- everyday objects that they can explore and find out about. For example,
they play with mixing bowls and learn how the little mixing bowl fits
into the big mixing bowl, how things fall down instead of up."
Surround your child with simple, old-fashioned, hands-on toys such
as drums, bells, keyboards, nesting cups and bowls, rattles, etc. And
remember that the best children's toys don't always come from stores.
If you spend a lot of money on a high-tech toy, you run the risk that
your child might prefer playing with the box and wrapping paper instead!
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